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Round Up: November Favourites

Round Up: November Favourites

Happy December, blogfam! With a new month finally upon us, I thought it would be fun to do a round up of some of my go-to sex toys and fetish gear during the month of November. Some of these pieces definitely deserve — and will receive — review posts of their very own, but in the meantime, here’s something to whet your appetite. In no particular order: The Heavenly Heart Mini Plug by Doc Johnson has definitely been my go-to…

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The Baby Bear Boutique: First Impressions & Halloween Onesie Review

The Baby Bear Boutique: First Impressions & Halloween Onesie Review

The Baby Bear Boutique is a fairly new company on the adult onesie scene, and after seeing their halloween bodysuit promotions come across my social media feed earlier this summer, I was excited to give them a try. I placed my pre-order in the middle of August, and I believe that they began to ship out in early September, with a guaranteed arrival date before Halloween. Knowing that the sizing was supposed to run a little large, I went ahead…

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How You Handle Shit Matters: On Consent Violations, Mistakes and Kindness in Kink

How You Handle Shit Matters: On Consent Violations, Mistakes and Kindness in Kink

Just because someone is a long-standing member of the kink community doesn’t automatically mean that they’re ‘safe’, ’sane’ or knowledgable — and just because some people have had good experiences with someone doesn’t mean that *everyone* has. People can talk about their experiences (positive, negative, neutral) however they see fit, but don’t think for one minute that two (or even twenty-two) positive references automatically negates *any* & *all* negative experiences that someone else might have had with that person, or…

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There is No ‘Safe’ Space In the Kink Community: A Consent Violation Story

There is No ‘Safe’ Space In the Kink Community: A Consent Violation Story

I originally wrote and posted this as a note on Fetlife several years ago. At the time, I still wanted to believe that the person in question did not have a history of predatory behaviour, and that this was more of a one-off event, so I was very careful about concealing their identity out of respect for them. However, recent events in my local community have proven that belief wrong. This incident happened locally during my first few years in…

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The Reality

The Reality

I’m never scared in my fantasies. I can take anything. Gracefully, eagerly, and without fear. I can let go fully and completely each and every time, giving in to y(our) every whim and fantasy without a glimmer of hesitation. Every harsh lash and even harsher murmur brings me closer and closer to convulsing, orgasmic, euphoric bliss. There is no doubt. No uncertainty. No second guessing (of you, or of myself). There is nothing but pure, complete submission and shameless lust….

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